Sunday, March 06, 2005

Just when....

I thought things couldn't get any worse, everything with my car starts to go wrong. I am getting myself together and about to move out of my mom's house and I have to dish out extra money to get new struts, oil leak fixed, new battery and now the alternator. I was planning to get a new car in about 4-6 months but it looks like I am going to have to speed the process up soon. I didn't want to do that but I don't have very many choices at this point.

That was the worst of the weekend!
So Friday evening I come home from picking my sister up from Jacksonville, AL and I'm going to get my hair done before I hit up First Fridays @ Safari Cup. That plan gets ran into the ground so I go for what I know and I have my sister to straighten my hair so that it looks half way decent. Last month when I went to First Fridays I barely got in and the place was extremely crowded. The dance floor was jumpin and you couldn't walk up the stairs without someone touching your butt! The guys enjoyed that!! This time I go solo and I leave early. Of all nights it was a little chilly and I had on black slacks, black silk spaghetti strapped shirt and an orange stylish trench coat and clutch. Looking SO good but oh so cold. In the line I was on the phone with a good friend of mine (will talk about him later), and there are other guys like Daaaaaaaaaammmmmmmmmmmnnnnnnnnnnn. Saying, "You need to get off the phone and holla at me." One guy was so slick was like tell whoever you are talking to that there is a guy standing in line with you starring right in your mouth while you are having a private conversation. Then he says go ahead and tell him you love him so that you can go ahead and talk to me. I was like WOW! The nerve of this guy. I'm glad that wasn't my boyfriend on the phone or it might have been some TROUBLE!! So I went along with the game and I told him that I Loved Him, just to humor the guy standing in line. To go ahead and end the story, I ended up leaving that party and I went over to my Good friends house and we watched SAW and talked about weird sex stories of things that happened to us!! Turned out to be a pretty good night overall. I enjoyed myself. Talk to you fellow bloggers later. holla.....
Jassy

Tuesday, March 01, 2005

I have so much...

Hey Fellow Bloggers.......
To catch up on. My life has turned from being ok to being a total wreck. Nothing seems to be going good and when it goes good it turns bad. Lord Help!!! I know that it will be ok so i am just going to take it day by day. Here in the past few months, I have met some pretty incredible people and made some new friends. That's peobably the only good things that have happened to me besides a good income tax check. (LOL) I am getting ready to move out of my mother's house and out on my own. Boy am I looking forward to the freedom. I have some problems with her that I think will work out better when I am not living with her. I will like her more if I'm not under her roof. Looking for another job, don't think that this last opportunity is for me. Great experience but nothing thathas Jasmine' s future. I have been spending a lot of time with Kamil (my daughter) and it has been great to see how she acts 24 hours a day. Right at this moment I don't know that I could be a stay at home mom. Thank God for daycares. I will let you in on more later. I will do my best this time to keep up-to-date with my life. Thanks for the patience and love.
Jasmine

Sunday, January 09, 2005

It's been a minute......

So many new things are going on, along with the new year. New goals, new friends, new dreams, and a new life! Those are some of the things that I am praying for in the NEW YEAR instead of the traditional new years resolution. There is so much to say but in so little time (for me to write that is). I have definitly missed reading my fellow bloggers' pages and I have decided that I am going to start back posting and try and do a little better than I started off doing. I haven't written since before Christmas so I guess I might need to start off saying that I had a blessed Birthday and Christmas. I turned 21 on December 21st. So much love was shown to me and I really appreciated all of the gifts and lovely birthday meals! Christmas was pretty good for me! For my daughter it was exceptional. She was very suprised to wake up and find a Dora the Explorer Christmas. The look on her face was priceless. The New Years was pretty good. I spent the night at my church's Watch Night Service and was home by 1am. Work has been amazing. I am now feeling more loved in my department!! NOT!! The workload has been very heavy the past week closing out year end reports and getting ready for the tax season. I guess that's what to be expected working in Accounting. Besides work my social life is Ok. The same kool friends, but one I had to let go. It hurts when the person you think you can trust the most stabs you in the back right in your heart. That has just recently happened to me. I have yet to understand why the bad things happen to me and I am always doing for others, listening to others, being understanding to other's needs and always there when they need me the most. When I'm have a hard time No one is there for me. Why is it that all the good people are always hurt, broke and suffer the worst? I have got to have a conversation with God about that. Other than those few things. Everything is all good. God saw fit for me to be on this earth for 21 years and has continued to bless me by allowing me to see 2005. I have learned not to take the smallest thing like the breath that God gives me from day to day for granted and I hope and pray that whoever reads this doesn't either. May God to continue to bless you fellow bloggers. Until next time, Be Blessed & Be You! JassyPha

Monday, November 22, 2004

Something to Think about....

"Irrelevant Information Introduces you to the Inability to have Joy."

How much do I match.....

You are 67% Sagittarius





A-U-B-U-R-N

The Iron Bowl is over and the Auburn Tigers have taken the title for the year. Glory, Glory to ole Auburn A-U-B-U-R-N! So I went to my ghetto aunt's house to watch the game with my Dad's side of the family. A totally different breed from my mother's side. We were in a small apartment and 20 deep in the living room part sitting n e where you could find a seat. Everyone in the room has about 5 football boards to their hands checking each quarter to see if they had won money. My dad won a nice piece on two of his boards and some other people won a few bills but not enough to really do n e thing with. One lady won 50.00 and she said she was going to get her car tag with that. Then her drunk husband says wait a minute, wait a minute I already gave you money for that tag!! She said you did but I went to the grocery store early one morning and spent that money so I had to hustle that money up another way now. He said look you done told on yourself because you were supposed to have been bought that tag. Then me and my dad had everyone all upset because our team won and they didn't want to hear us yelling and screaming. It was kool though. It's always nice to hang around drunk older people listening to the blues every once in a while.
Later that night I had a high school crush come over that I had not seen in years come to visit me. He had heard from some fellow class mates how much I had changed since the last time I saw me so I guess he had to come and evaluate himself. I remember the first day he talked to me. I was a freshman and he was a senior and I thought I was the she-y-t because I was kickin it with him. He hasn't turned out so bad. Still the same person of course a lot more mature but still a sweetie! Of course I found out that he wanted to talk to me at one point but he claims that I never gave him the time of day. Well that's it for now...Until later....Have a good day!

Friday, November 19, 2004

Love

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WAAAAAAAR EAGLE HEY!

Ok...Time for the Iron Bowl. I work for a company where everyone either is an Auburn Fan (War Eagle) or an Alabama fan. We are having our tailgate party today and people are really emotional about this stuff. I see the President of the company, which is an Alabama fan and he says "Man Yall have corrupted the new girl already." The new girl referring to me. I am all decked out in my orange and blue reppin the Tigers proud. It is interesting to me that there are more Auburn fans here, all of my other surroudings are usually the complete opposite. Go Figure?? I will let you know the outcome of the party as it happens. Have a good day! P.S. I hope that food is good!!!

Thursday, November 18, 2004

FREE FOOD

My company had a customer appreciation luncheon for their customers today. I am the only black female in the entire company and the other blacks are warehouse workers and its about 5 of them. Well to go on with the story, we have a black guy that owns a company and he's a really good customer. I expected to see his staff here today eating lunch. Well I saw a few of the guys but then I look up and a van load of black guys come out of no where. They are from another one of our customers but they never come and pick up stuff. Well I see the van leave those guys and I look up and the van comes back again with another van load of black guys. By this time I am embarrassed because there are a ton of blacks coming for FREE food, who we've never seen before and my co workers are laughing their butts off seeing this van haul all of these people like a shuttle service. Then all of the guys have the nerve to WINK ;) at me while I'm in line getting me a plate. Isn't that a crock of horse mess. Blacks...You can't tell ONE of them there is free food somewhere.

Almost Another Weekend.....

.....And I'm just posting from the last. I have so much to say and so little time so I will just cut it short.

Friday
I did nothing!!!!
I have a cousin that is a little confused about his sexual orientation and spent the night entertaining him because he hasn't been feeling very well. He was dehydrated and been at the doctor's office all day and wanted some company. I volunteered my Friday evening to watch Lifetime movies with him before I went and met "the married man" in an empty parking lot. It's not what you think....We just TALKED & LAUGHED! That was until my mom went to her boyfriend's house and he came over and we watched Love & Basketball and talked until almost morning.
Saturday
Again I did nothing!!!
I woke up very sleepy Saturday morning after getting an hour nap before talking my daughter to much anticipated dance class. When I returned from taking her to dance I hit the pillow as soon as I hit the door. My Mother was a BIG help because she took my daughter with her to the grocery store for about 2 hours. I'm thinking Great! I can get in a gooood power nap and get up and do my normal Saturday cleaning and continue on with my day relaxed and rested.
NOT
My dad decides he wants to come and visit me and he has a bootleg copy of the movie RAY! (Which by the way from the small part that I saw, is an excellent movie)
Now back to why I only saw half of the movie. My mom walks in the door and the Auburn/Georgia game was on. My Dad and I had everything worked out. We were watching Ray on one TV and the game was on the other. So we were taking turns going back and forth seeing the score and what was going on. (Yes I Watch FOOTBALL and I LOVE IT) It was working out for us until she came in the door and just turned off the DVD player on us and said this is the TV that I watch football on and both of ya'll know it. So instead of griping about it, I just let it go and I was surprised that my dad did to. So he promised to bring it back so that I could finish it. He couldn't just leave it because then his wife would know he had been over to our house and that wouldn't be a good thing.
Sunday
I went to church and it was my choir's Sunday to sing. We did a pretty good job this Sunday and we had a pretty nice crowd at church so I am sure the Lord was pleased with our service. After church I went and ate dinner with my cousins and godmother. I had a blast (ok that was lame) but I did have fun. One of my cousin's aunts works at the corporate office in Birmingham and they have unbelievable sales for those people. She had 3 HUGE boxes of clothing to just give away. All of the clothes were things that they are selling in the stores right now and I racked up. I don't have to buy n e sweaters or long sleeve shirts this season. They were all so cute.
So this concludes my edition of my boring weekend. Until next time you all Be Blessed and Be You! Luv Ya

Monday, November 15, 2004

Friday, November 12, 2004

Clarification Purposes...........

Thanks to a fellow Blogger!

I need to clarify something from my last posting. When I was talking about the conversation about my daughter being his girlfriend, I wasn't meaning that literally. What I meant by that was Kamil (my daughter) is really friendly and he likes her (because she is a friendly and cute little girl). He plays with her at the church and he calls her his little girlfriend FOR PLAY......

Jassy

Bear With Me!!!

Hey Fellow Bloggers.....

Here I am at it again. I haven't had much time to update but here I go. I am still new to this so bear with me if I'm a little boring at first.

So this guy that goes to church me really likes me. He is in Birmingham every two weeks to visit his gorgeous daughter and parents. Well come to find out, he has liked me for a long time and I have had a crush him but because I knew he was older I didn't think he would talk me other than as acquaintances. He was in Birmingham for the Magic City Classic about two weeks ago and he gets my phone number from my cousin (whom I'm very close to) and he calls me. I look on the caller ID (man I love those things) and I don't recognize the number but I answer anyway. He asks to speak to me and asks me how I'm doing and how my day has gone. I talk to him about three minutes not knowing whom I'm conversing with. He sounded good and I figured I knew him from somewhere because he has my number and he specifically asked for me. I continue on and I say, "Who is this?" He says, "You have a girlfriend of mine." I ask him, "Who might that be?" He says, "My girlfriend, you know her very well." I said, "Well I don't know exactly who you are referring to so I think that you better just go ahead and tell me who you are." He says, "Your daughter is my girlfriend." After that hint and about 2 more hints I finally figure out that its the guy I have had a crush on for years and of course wondering to myself how in the hell did he get my number. He went on to tell me that he went to the church to pay his tithes because he wouldn't be able to make it to the church on Sunday and he thought that he would look in the church directory to get my number, but because my cousin was there he got my number from her on the sly. He is a really kool guy, I love conversing with him but there is one thing that hinders our relationship to go any further. HE'S MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tuesday, November 09, 2004

The Introduction.......

Hey World......

It's me trying some new things in life and beginning them with YOU!

Just to let you know a little about me. My name is Jasmine and I currently reside in the "Magic City" of Birmingham, AL. I am 20 year old and aging, day by day. I have a 3 year old daughter who is my Angel here on earth. I am presently a full time employee for a piping supply company and I am working on being back in school in January of 2005. I am thinking about studying to be a Surgical Physicians Assistant or an Occupational Therapist. I love music and I also love to read. I think this is good enough to start things off!! Until next time...Holla Things will get juicier as the time goes on so bare with me.....

Jasmine

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